Who to have in the wedding party and who not to have…. that is the question.  We all have had the nightmare of  trying to make every one happy, include every one that is important to the family, but this is not what may make us happy.

You are the bride and groom, so pick the one person who is most important in your life for the maid of  honor, and best man. If you feel that you need more people in the wedding, because they are important to you, then fine, otherwise find other areas that these important people can help you with, master and mistress of ceremony, cutting the cake for you,( save twice on this idea, as many times this is an extra charge to you, and is charged by the person), guest book and many other areas that they could help.  Very simply at bargin prices, going from five attendants each to one each you can save at least $350, just on flowers.  You will also save on gifts for the attendants.  The other savings come in for your attendants, remember they may be trying to save money as well( or can not afford it at all, and do not want to hurt your feelings by saying no.

Next time the wedding guest list, let me know how this works for you.

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